Monday, June 8, 2009

What's love got to do with it? Everything.

A new kind of Cosmo girl is in town -- at least temporarily. The July issue of the glossy mag known for its racy covers and racier sex quizzes profiles several young women who have decided to hold off on having meaningless sex until they meet "Mr. Right."

Kathryn Jean Lopez over at National Review Online takes a closer look at the Cosmo feature and one abstinence education program that is having success in Newark:

"The non-profit Best Friends Foundation sponsored an essay contest asking participants in its abstinence-education program to explain the program’s significance in their lives. Hannah, a sixth-grader at Louise A. Spencer Elementary School, explained that the program taught her that she has 'the right to say no to sex and drugs . . . to respect myself and the ones around me . . . to have trust, faith, and self-esteem.'

"In other words, Hannah’s self-worth isn’t determined by her scores in the 'Love Game,' as the Lady Gaga song crudely terms what is far from real love. Quonia, a student at Chancellor Avenue School, also understands this important lesson. 'There are plenty of times when boys have told me things that I wanted to hear just so I would have sex with them. But I didn’t and I am proud to say that I’m in the eighth grade and I am not sexually active,' she declares."

That's right. Eighth grade. And that's a victory. We've got a lot of work ahead of us, if we are going to turn our kids around. Read the full Lopez column by clicking HERE.

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